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Author name: Patricia Stoecker

I’m a 32-year Army veteran turned intimacy and wellness expert, passionate about helping people feel confident, connected, and empowered. Through Find Your Own Passion™, I offer curated intimacy products, fun in-home parties, and peri/menopause life coaching. No matter your age or stage, my mission is simple: My passion is helping you find yours™.

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Why Pain, Discomfort, or Numbness During Sex Is Not “Normal”

For far too long, women have been told—directly or indirectly—that pain during sex is just something to tolerate. That it’s part of aging, part of menopause, part of stress, or simply “how it is now.” Let’s be very clear: pain, discomfort, or numbness during sex is not normal—and it’s not something you should ignore. As women […]

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Holiday Self-Care: Slowing Down, Reconnecting, and Enjoying the Season

The holidays arrive every year with sparkle, tradition, and a very full calendar. Between gatherings, gift lists, travel, and expectations (both spoken and unspoken), it can be easy to move through the season on autopilot. My hope for you this Christmas is simple: that you find moments to slow down, soften, and truly savor what

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The Ultimate Lube Wardrobe Guide: Matching the Right Lubricant to the Moment

Think of your lube collection like a wardrobe: you could wear the same black leggings every day… but why, when you can have jeans, a little black dress, cozy sweats, and a raincoat? Lubricants work the same way—different formulas shine in different situations: toy play, water play, moisturizing your vagina, or intercourse. One thing to keep in

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Create a Romantic Thanksgiving for Two: Skip the Stress and Reconnect Instead

For so many women, Thanksgiving comes with a silent pressure: host the meal, manage the menu, handle the family dynamics, and magically transform into Martha Stewart with a side of emotional support turkey. And let’s be honest—by the time the stuffing goes in the oven, a lot of us already feel… well, stuffed. Here’s the

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Rediscover Your Rhythm: Personalized Menopause Coaching to Help You Feel Like You Again

Let’s be honest — menopause isn’t just about hormones. It’s about identity, confidence, connection, and energy. One day you feel like yourself, and the next, you’re wondering who that woman in the mirror even is. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone — and you don’t have to figure it out alone, either. That’s why

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